Bryan Bowen
INTERVENTION IS THE ACT OF ENTERING A SITUATION IN ORDER TO CHANG ITS COURSE
Do you ever or have you ever, felt like the woman above, when talking to a loved one about their Addiction and their need for help?1st Step Interventions knows that addiction does not only affect the addict. People, who have the Disease of Addiction, whether it is to alcohol, drugs or both, do not exist in a world by themselves. Most individuals with the Disease of Addiction live within some relationship to their families, friends, and coworkers. The individuals can be just as affected by The Disease of Addiction as Addict. Intervention is about professionally intervening with love, feelings and facts to motivate the addicted person to accept the help being offered them. Because unhealthy dynamics surround the addicted person, professional intervention is needed to break down denial and to keep the focus with the addicted person and not on the family, blaming or anything else external.It is only in the most extreme of circumstances that the alcoholic or addict will voluntarily seek treatment. Practicing addicts who have
been forced to face The Disease of Addiction and their behaviors by Family members, Friends, Etc.. will stoutly maintain that there is no problem. Professional intervention provides the necessary impetus to involve the Addict in the process so the Group can confront the Addict about their addiction and break through the denial.
1st Step Interventions specializes in intervention. 1st Step Interventions utilizes a proven method of working with the family, friends and coworkers (coworkers only in certain circumstances) of the Addict. When this group has come to one voice it is ready to take the meeting to the Addict. The message in this meeting is delivered with
love, feelings and facts. When the meeting is held in this professional manner, the identified addict is not fearful of the message and hears
what the group is saying. 95% of addicts intervened on by 1st Step Interventions accept the help and decide to enter Treatment and Recovery.
Addiction Care Management Outpatient’s Program assesses the Patient’s Life Skills, Recovery, Family and Mental Health needs Pre and Post Treatment. First contact is made when Family or loved one calls 1st Step Interventions for an Assessment. An Addiction Care Specialist from 1st Step Interventions will follow the Patient from their Intervention, thru Treatment and for up to 1 year Post Treatment. During this time the Addictions Care Specialist will have intimate knowledge of the Addicts issues, pitfalls and areas where they are doing well. They will also work with you – The Family – providing needed Support, Education and Answers.
Average amount of time per month Addiction Care Management outpatient Program provides up to 16 hours per month (unused hours cannot be used from one month to another.) This includes time spent with Family during weekly conference calls and helping the Family move into its own recovery, Working with The Family Workbook, Weekly Contacts with Patients either by phone or face to face, Addressing issues as they come up for Patients or Families, Managing referrals to other Doctors, Psychiatrist’s, Therapists etc. Being Accessible to Family or Patient at any time to help process issues or problem solve issues as they arise as. Making sure the Patient participates in a 12 step program and actually works the steps with a Sponsor. This also includes on going education for the Family and Patient and helping each move forward in their own Recovery. Addiction Care Management will also handle ALL issues as they do or will arise with the recovering patient, or a Family member. Should a case require more time than 16 hours per month than additional fees may apply, but will always be discussed first.
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde It’s a widely accepted belief that we alcoholics and addicts have two personas that may be extremely divergent or just slightly different. We may even have more than two that add to our deep experience of internal conflict. For example, we may recognize the loving husband and father who coaches Little League and enjoys his family when he’s not lying to them, getting drunk and beating his wife and kids. Subtler is the addicted doctor who practices quality medicine and plays by the rules until he decides to lie to his staff and family as he begins to self-administer narcotics or other controlled substances. You probably know the cliché phrase Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde from the story by Robert Louis Stevenson. Dr. Jekyll is a fine individual who turns into the monster, Mr. Hyde, once he ingests the “poison.” This seems like alcoholism, except the alcoholic starts becoming Mr. Hyde before he ingests the alcohol or other drug. The transformation into Mr. Hyde, the using addict, precedes his actual use. You have heard it before - “Relapse happens before the usage”. In essence, people get ready to relapse. They begin to behave, think, and feel in ways they used to behave, think and feel when they were actively addicted. This has always been called a “dry drunk.”
Relapse is active use. Relapse behavior, thinking and feeling come first. But remember, a person doesn’t relapse until he or she takes the drink, the pill, the needle or the sniff. Addiction Care Management will teach you to intervene on yourself before you take the relapse action. We will focus on the Dr. Jekyll part of you becoming Mr. Hyde. One of our major goals is to heighten self-awareness without increasing self-obsession. When you are able to notice the earliest signs of your addict emerging and you take the appropriate steps to avoid using, you have averted a relapse. You are beginning to take the actions needed for “living sober.” We Professionals who are alcoholics and addicts know what it’s like to be at war with ourselves. We know what it’s like to be at war with others too, but the big war is an inside battle. Until we are solid in recovery, and even then, we maintain strong defenses against seeing ourselves clearly. We work to mute the opposing players within us. Dry…using. Dry…using. Back and forth we go, we undermined steady, forward growth in recovery by forces within. Is this experience unique to alcoholics and addicts? NO! It is part of being human. But does it cause trouble for addicts and alcoholics? Yes, and so we must look inside to see who’s there. What blocks us from maintaining a healthy recovery?
Trauma Why are you afraid? This is a big question, one you will tackle repeatedly in Treatment and Addiction Care Management. Sometimes you’ll be able to look back on your life and remember old behaviors, beliefs, feelings and relationships that were distressing to you. Now, you may be able to see that you felt afraid. You felt alone. You felt inadequate to take care of yourself. But you had nowhere to turn for help. Many addicts and alcoholics have grown up with trauma. Trauma means being in a state of utter helplessness and hopelessness. It may be the experience of living through an earthquake, flood or war when you thought you might die. It may be the experience of living with out-of-control, alcoholic parents. You couldn’t stop them and you couldn’t protect yourself. Another, a trusted family member, friend or a stranger, may have abused you. In these examples you have been the victim of trauma — a natural disaster or someone else’s out-of-control behavior. As you work through the exercises of uncovering the past, you will remember these traumas. You may see that your relapses have been directly connected to these past experiences and your fear of the power of these memories in recovery. Many people drink or use to try to control memories. We will help you remember and we will help you learn to cope with all of your past. This work is hard and painful, but it is often necessary to maintain sobriety. There is another kind of trauma that is also related to relapse. That’s the trauma you inflicted on yourself and others by being addicted. We will work with you to uncover how you lost control, how you were helpless, what you did to yourself and others and how hard it is to remember and to take responsibility for your behavior, beliefs, feelings, and patterns of relationship. You traumatized yourself. You became your own victim. You were out-of-control and helpless, though you may have believed it was just the opposite.